This problem is not addressed in the FAQs or the Documentation. The latter, I read only after DAYS of "trial and error". (Maybe I should read the instructions more often? ... Nah!!!)
1. When other ships hail me for help, or with "ad hoc" missions, how do I learn who they are and complete whatever the transaction is? "Y", "Return" and Option-Tab don't do it for me.
2. The documentation says I can "cycle" through my escorts and fighters with Option-Tab. Only it doesn't work. I get the closest of my escort ships, period. (If I wish to recall a fighter I must "hold" all my escorts, buzz around each of them 'til I locate the guy I want, get closer to him than any other, THEN hail him.) Whew! That's a real pain ... ESPECIALLY during a dogfight.
NOTE: I DID reset my preferences in the beginning of playing EV. I use "T" instead of "Tab" for targeting. Do you think my changes could have caused this? (Kaptian Karl has no "pinky" finger on L hand. That's why he changed it....)
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Let's see what this button does....